i don’t think it’s a choice.
i mean, why would anyone wanna choose to be hated and discriminated against, and yet, still be with the person you fell in love with, be it male or female.
you can never choose who you fall in love with, which is why it’s said “love is BLIND.”
I think it depends on who you are! Some people are born that way, as other people say. Others are by choice because they notice they feel an attraction for people of the same sex. All in all love is love no matter what! And true love concurs all <3
it can’t be a choice…i mean before I realize that I’m bi I had friends that were bi and I was …kinda of shocked and I was saying ‘you’ll never see me with a girl, cuz i’m straight!’ buuuut in 7th grade a new girl arrived in school and I started to fell something funny in my stomach for her..and she was bi and in 7th grade i first kissed a girl…i didn’t except that before this..so I can’t think of this being a choise
I really don’t think it’s a choice… Many may do it for attention but that isn’t who they really are and may be doing it to be “cool.” But I know I felt something for girls back in my Freshman year of high school… I may have felt something earlier but I don’t really remember if I did or not because it was a long time ago. Just sometimes, people realize things a bit later then others. I’m considering myself straight now because I hardly go for girls anymore but I know that other side of me wont ever leave. -Ecko
A friend sent this to me yesterday.
I’ve been saying stuff like that for years. My best friend growing up is gay and has been since birth. And one of my really close friends now was born like that also.
But since people are douche bags they don’t believe stuff like this. Grrrr hate people like that.
I’ve never understood why people think that we choose to be discriminated against. Surely common sense shows us that being gay, lesbian, bisexual etc is not a choice.
Being gay isn’t a choice. If it was, no one would be gay! Why would anyone choose to be hated, discriminated against, outcast, or to face the social stigma associated with homosexuality? I don’t think people are ‘born’ gay either, because you don’t have sexual impulses until puberty (despite what Frued says). I hit puberty at nine, and fought myself until age twelve, when I finally realized that it was okay to like both guys and girls (that was the same year I accepted Christ as my savior :]). I came out to my sister first, but didn’t tell the rest of my family until I was sixteen; my grandparents still don’t know. I came out at school sophmore year. Before I accepted myself, I didn’t have a problem with gays, but I thought that bisexuals needed to make up their minds! Boy was I misguided. You can’t stop sexual attraction; it’s caused by a chemical reaction in the brain. You can’t control it; refusing it only causes pain. I find myself more drawn to women lately, but who knows? I’m happy with me no matter what!
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i don’t think it’s a choice.
i mean, why would anyone wanna choose to be hated and discriminated against, and yet, still be with the person you fell in love with, be it male or female.
you can never choose who you fall in love with, which is why it’s said “love is BLIND.”
I think it depends on who you are! Some people are born that way, as other people say. Others are by choice because they notice they feel an attraction for people of the same sex. All in all love is love no matter what! And true love concurs all <3
Thanks for the help Joey, the vid ansert some of my questions XD
Nice, but wow. The baby in the womb looked like Alex Armstrong, LOL couldn’t help myself on that one.
Never thought it was a choice.
sigh…of course a university in sc is a possible exception -__-
it can’t be a choice…i mean before I realize that I’m bi I had friends that were bi and I was …kinda of shocked and I was saying ‘you’ll never see me with a girl, cuz i’m straight!’ buuuut in 7th grade a new girl arrived in school and I started to fell something funny in my stomach for her..and she was bi and in 7th grade i first kissed a girl…i didn’t except that before this..so I can’t think of this being a choise
I really don’t think it’s a choice… Many may do it for attention but that isn’t who they really are and may be doing it to be “cool.” But I know I felt something for girls back in my Freshman year of high school… I may have felt something earlier but I don’t really remember if I did or not because it was a long time ago. Just sometimes, people realize things a bit later then others. I’m considering myself straight now because I hardly go for girls anymore but I know that other side of me wont ever leave. -Ecko
A friend sent this to me yesterday.
I’ve been saying stuff like that for years. My best friend growing up is gay and has been since birth. And one of my really close friends now was born like that also.
But since people are douche bags they don’t believe stuff like this. Grrrr hate people like that.
I’ve never understood why people think that we choose to be discriminated against. Surely common sense shows us that being gay, lesbian, bisexual etc is not a choice.
the video is cool.. but what about bi people?? DX
XD tht proved my dad wrong!
I Don’t Think It’s Much of a Choice Either .. But I Guess, if You want to Be Gay, that’s your Choice.[:
Interesting Vid.
WTF?
Being gay isn’t a choice. If it was, no one would be gay! Why would anyone choose to be hated, discriminated against, outcast, or to face the social stigma associated with homosexuality? I don’t think people are ‘born’ gay either, because you don’t have sexual impulses until puberty (despite what Frued says). I hit puberty at nine, and fought myself until age twelve, when I finally realized that it was okay to like both guys and girls (that was the same year I accepted Christ as my savior :]). I came out to my sister first, but didn’t tell the rest of my family until I was sixteen; my grandparents still don’t know. I came out at school sophmore year. Before I accepted myself, I didn’t have a problem with gays, but I thought that bisexuals needed to make up their minds! Boy was I misguided. You can’t stop sexual attraction; it’s caused by a chemical reaction in the brain. You can’t control it; refusing it only causes pain. I find myself more drawn to women lately, but who knows? I’m happy with me no matter what!
lol the ending is great it reminds me of an old friend that kept going back and forth and i was like MAKE UP YOUR MIND! XD